I know it can be heartbreaking when you feel like the guy you’re with no longer loves you and doesn’t want to be with you anymore.
He hasn’t said this to you outright, but you know in your heart something’s off.
You might have even asked yourself, why doesn’t he just break up with me instead of lingering and dragging things out?
The truth is break-ups are hard, even if you are the one who wants to leave the relationship. Inevitably, feelings get hurt and he may genuinely not want to hurt you.
Do you have these feelings your relationship is deteriorating and you need to start looking for the signs he doesn’t love you? Well, you’ve come to the right place!
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Men won’t ever tell you they don’t love you right to your face, especially if they still have some feelings for you—it doesn’t have to be love, it can be respect of some kind or a feeling you can’t exactly identify, but it’s there.
Sometimes that undefined feeling is the only thing stopping them from breaking up with you.
But when you think about it, wouldn’t you rather want a breakup right away, than months of agony followed by a breakup anyway?
Although cutting the cord right away would be an ideal solution to the problem you have, whatever involves feelings cannot have a simple solution.
Important Point Before We Begin…
It’s important to note that a lot of the signs that he doesn’t want to be with you have to do with him putting in less effort. Maybe he’s no longer opening up to you and has gotten really cold lately. Or, maybe he doesn’t want to go on dates like he did before. Whatever the specifics are, the point is he’s not putting in as much time and energy as he did at the beginning of the relationship.
And while that is a good indicator that he doesn’t want to be with you, it’s not true all the time. There could be other reasons your boyfriend is not stepping up as much as he used to.
Maybe he’s just gotten complacent in the relationship, or lazy. It’s also possible he’s just taking you for granted and doesn’t feel like he needs to show up in the relationship as much to keep you happy because you keep showing up for him despite his lack of effort.
Sometimes all it takes for a guy like this to step up is to face the possibility of losing you. Sometimes guys just need space in a relationship and this isn’t a big deal.
If that’s the case, just back off for a while and focus on yourself and see what happens. If he’s interested, he will come back. But, if he genuinely no longer wants a relationship with you, he might take this opportunity to leave the relationship for good.
If you want to know if he just needs space or wants to be out of the relationship for good, read these 40 definite signs he doesn’t want to be with you anymore. In this article, you’ll get to understand whether he still wants a relationship or not, and what you can do about this.
So take a deep breath — and if you’re ready, let’s start.
Signs he doesn’t want a relationship with you anymore
1) He’s always annoyed at you
Everything you do bothers him.
He gets irritated even by the little things you do. Those quirks that he used to find cute and love about you now seem to get on his nerves.
You’re wondering why the way you laugh irritates him. Even the way you cuddle him while watching a movie now makes him uncomfortable.,
It could be because you’re annoying him, he’s tired, or having a stressful time.
But since you know him better — and if you can’t see what’s affecting him — take this as a warning sign that he’s having second thoughts about his feelings for you.
2) He stops apologizing for what he did
Sometimes he would do things to hurt you. But he’ll just ignore this and won’t apologize.
If you can feel that he’s arguing with you for a purpose, then it’s a red flag warning. It shows that he doesn’t care about your feelings anymore.
He might be using this as a reason to break off your relationship.
3) He gets angry for no reason
What was once a sweet relationship is turning into a horror movie.
When you’re together, he gets snappy and impatient at everything. His fuse is getting shorter, and his tolerance level is dropping.
He’s yelling at you at the slightest little thing. You can almost feel that he’s screaming as he wants you out.
Don’t let this behavior surprise you. It’s a disturbing sign that he doesn’t love you anymore.
4) You feel anxious around him
You’re in a toxic relationship and it’s killing your sanity slowly.
You don’t know why you’re feeling this way towards him. Why?
Because you can feel that your boyfriend doesn’t love you anymore, he’s sort of transmitting that weird vibe onto you.
You’re anxious because you’re scared of what will happen to your relationship. You’re in denial and having a conflict with yourself.
You can’t accept the fact that his feelings for you have turned into something else.
5) He disagrees with you
Disagreements and differences in a relationship are normal.
But when he doesn’t want to compromise or resolve even the smallest things, it is a signal for a disaster.
You can also see that he starts blowing everything out of proportion and picks on you at the slightest chance.
If he’s doing this most of the time, look at this as a sign that something isn’t right with his feelings for you.
6) He’s withdrawn all the time
He used to share his day and talk about anything with you — from how his day was to how he’s feeling.
But now, he has shut down, pulls away, and refuses to talk.
If he wants to work something on his own or maybe he’s experiencing a phase of being withdrawn, it’s normal.
But then, if it comes to a point where he doesn’t want to talk to you for an extended period, that’s not normal. It’s a sign that he doesn’t care about your relationship anymore.
7) He’s ignoring your calls and texts
Again, it’s normal if texting and calling decreases when a relationship matures. But it’s a different thing when it takes him forever to reply to your messages.
The worst is, he’s ignoring your texts and not answering your calls.
It’s hard, but this is a clear sign that he doesn’t want to hear from you anymore.
8) He doesn’t initiate contact anymore
At the initial stage of a relationship, couples tend to talk and message each other 24/7. Everything is intense, and you want to stay in touch all the time.
This calms down as the relationship grows — and you become more relaxed with each other.
But there’s something wrong if suddenly, you’re the only one who keeps on checking in. You won’t hear from him if you didn’t call or send him a message.
9) He doesn’t make time for you
Even if he’s busy, if he loves you, he will find time for you.
Look at yourself.
No matter how preoccupied you are with what you’re doing, you’re carving out time because you care about him.
But what about him?
I bet he still has time to play or spend time with his friends. He even tells you he’s busy and keeps making excuses when you want to see him or go on a date.
Maybe he’s avoiding you for he doesn’t know how to face the reality that the relationship might be over. Likely, he doesn’t want to spend time with you anymore.
Ouch, but your relationship could be coming to an end.