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9 Signs She’s Just Not That Into You

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Feeling some distance from the woman you’re pursuing? Here are nine signs it’s time to move on because she’s just not that into you.


1. She’s Not Ready for a Relationship, Right Now

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When a woman says, “I’m not ready for a relationship right now,” she’s really saying, “I’m just not that into you.” This line is used to let you off easy. When she’s into you, regardless of hurt from previous relationships, she will pursue or at least make sure your interest isn’t going elsewhere.

2. She Hardly Calls or Returns Calls

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When a woman isn’t engaging in an active dialogue with you –not making or returning phone calls or text messages or doing so days later, she’s telling you she wants to be left alone. Don’t take this as her playing hard to get. If she’s not initiating the conversation or responding to it, she’s not that interested.

3. She Keeps You in the Friend Zone

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If she’s “happy being single” or “see’s you better as a friend” she cares about your feelings and appreciates the relationship you have but doesn’t see you as a romantic interest. If you’re in the friend zone, she’s either not physically attracted to you or doesn’t think you’re compatible. Don’t try with this one because you probably won’t get her to change her mind.

4. She’s Finding Herself

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A woman generally knows from the moment she sees you whether she can see herself with you and while this can change, physical attraction generally doesn’t. If she tells you she’s finding herself, she’s really telling you she’s looking for the person who will make her want to take her mind off the distractions, including finding herself.

5. She Cancels Your Plans

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If you’re always making plans with her and they’re always falling through because she cancels, she’s not trying and wants you to get the hint. When a woman is interested, no matter how busy her schedule is, she’ll make time for you.

6. She Talks to You about other Men, A Lot

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Think about it like this. If you always bring up other women to another woman, don’t you think this would turn her off? It works the same way from the opposite end. If she’s always bringing up other men, she’s either very insecure, very not into you, or both. Either way, this indicates the kind of trouble you may want to walk away from.

7. She Shows Little Affection


Read her body language. Does she actively smile when you’re talking, lightly touch you in the midst of conversation, even laugh at your corny jokes or does there seem to be a physical barrier when the two of you are in the same room? If the answer is the latter, this is a sign there is a lack of interest on her part. A woman who’s into you, wants to get close to you, both physically and emotionally.

8. She Talks About Her Ex, A Lot

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If she’s always talking about her ex, whether she actively mentions getting back with him or everything she hated about him, this is a clear sign she hasn’t moved on from her previous relationship. No matter how much effort you put in, if her head or heart is somewhere else, you’re a rebound and cutting yourself short.

9. She Avoids Your Pursuits (like the plague)

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If you’ve gathered up the nerve to ask her out but she tells you she needs time or keeps avoiding your advances with a number of other excuses, she’s stalling because she’s not into you. When a woman wants to be with you, you will have little trouble reading her interest. Period. It’s time to find someone who won’t hesitate when you take that ultimate leap.


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